In Times of Bereavement
In the unfortunate event that a person has passed away, there are three things that must be done in the first few days;
- Get a medical certificate from your GP or hospital doctor (this is necessary to register the death)
- Register the death within 5 days (8 days in Scotland). You will then receive the necessary documents for the funeral.
- Make the necessary funeral arrangements.
Register the death
If the death has been reported to the coroner (or Procurator Fiscal in Scotland) they must give permission before registering the death.
You can register the death if you are a relative, a witness to the death, a hospital administrator or the person making the arrangements with the funeral directors.
You can use the ‘Register a Death’ page on the gov.uk website that will guide you through the process. This will also explain the registration process for Scotland and Northern Ireland.
Arrange the funeral
The funeral can usually only take place after the death is registered. Most people use a funeral director, though you can arrange a funeral yourself.
Choose a funeral director who’s a member of one of the following:
- National Association of Funeral Directors
- National Federation of Funeral Directors
- Society of Allied and Independent Funeral Directors
These organisations have codes of practice - they must give you a price list when asked.
Arranging the funeral yourself
Contact the Cemeteries and Crematorium Department of your local council to arrange a funeral yourself.
Funeral costs can include:
- funeral director fees
- things the funeral director pays for on your behalf (called ‘disbursements’ or ‘third-party costs’), for example, crematorium or cemetery fees, or a newspaper announcement about the death
- local authority burial or cremation fees
Funeral directors may list all these costs in their quotes.
For free independent advice on bereavement issues, you can find more information at lastingpost.com.
The time around a loved one’s death can be disorientating and confusing and we don’t always know where to turn for advice or guidance.
This page aims to point you toward organisations and groups which can offer support, advice and assistance.
- NHS London Bereavement Information
- Cruse Bereavement Care – Kensington & Chelsea our local branch of Cruse which exists to promote the wellbeing of bereaved people. They can help you to understand your grief and cope with your loss.
- NHS Choices
- Bereavement Support for Children and Families another resource provided by Royal Borough of Kensington & Chelsea council
- Age UK
- Facing the Future this service has been developed by Samaritans and Cruse Bereavement Care to help support people who have been bereaved by suicide
- Survivors of Bereavement by Suicide – sobs They offer a range of support services for adults over 18, who are bereaved or affected by suicide.
- Winston’s Wish is the UK’s childhood bereavement charity. They support children and their families after the death of a parent or sibling.
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